Sorry for the long silence

I was very tired for a rather wonderful reason, and now today I’m just tired and sad. I had a miscarriage this morning. Can’t process it now…not here, not yet. I’ll be back in a few days or a week. And I’ll either talk about it or not. Don’t yet know…

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218 comments on “Sorry for the long silence
  1. Chrity says:

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’ve been there too, and will just say hang in there and take care of yourself. My thoughts are with you.

  2. Chrity says:

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’ve been there too, and will just say hang in there and take care of yourself. My thoughts are with you.

  3. becky says:

    Wishing you much comfort and peace.

  4. becky says:

    Wishing you much comfort and peace.

  5. barbara says:

    I am sorry. Look after yourself. Just words, I know. Not much else I could send. Words, and good thoughts.

  6. barbara says:

    I am sorry. Look after yourself. Just words, I know. Not much else I could send. Words, and good thoughts.

  7. abby says:

    I’m very sorry – my thoughts will be with you and your family.

  8. abby says:

    I’m very sorry – my thoughts will be with you and your family.

  9. Rachel H says:

    Much love to you.

  10. Rachel H says:

    Much love to you.

  11. jen says:

    hug & empathy. been there, twice. still don’t know what to say to others, but just know you & your family are in my thoughts & i’m hoping for peace for all of you.

  12. jen says:

    hug & empathy. been there, twice. still don’t know what to say to others, but just know you & your family are in my thoughts & i’m hoping for peace for all of you.

  13. caroline says:

    so, so sorry, chica. sending you hugs.

  14. caroline says:

    so, so sorry, chica. sending you hugs.

  15. Jo says:

    I was there earlier this year. I wish you peace.

  16. Jo says:

    I was there earlier this year. I wish you peace.

  17. Melissa says:

    I’m really sorry.

  18. Melissa says:

    I’m really sorry.

  19. beverly says:

    I’m so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  20. beverly says:

    I’m so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  21. Nell says:

    I’m so sorry.

  22. Nell says:

    I’m so sorry.

  23. JudithNYC says:

    I am really sorry. Un abrazo.

  24. JudithNYC says:

    I am really sorry. Un abrazo.

  25. Sharon says:

    I’m so sorry. Big hugs to you, chica.

  26. Sharon says:

    I’m so sorry. Big hugs to you, chica.

  27. Cate says:

    I am so sorry, Cari. My thoughts are with you.

  28. Cate says:

    I am so sorry, Cari. My thoughts are with you.

  29. Amy says:

    *hugs* So sorry, sweetie. If you want to talk with someone who’s been there, let me know.

  30. Amy says:

    *hugs* So sorry, sweetie. If you want to talk with someone who’s been there, let me know.

  31. Kayla says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry.
    I’ve been there, and its so hard, I’m so sorry.
    There is no need, at all, to apologise. Take care of yourself.
    *hugs*

  32. Kayla says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry.
    I’ve been there, and its so hard, I’m so sorry.
    There is no need, at all, to apologise. Take care of yourself.
    *hugs*

  33. Andi says:

    I’m so sorry that you are going through this. The only advise I can offer is to take a trip to the coast and find a quiet stretch of beach and take in the vastness, beauty and roughness. It humbles and reminds us that we are so small and so connected.

  34. Andi says:

    I’m so sorry that you are going through this. The only advise I can offer is to take a trip to the coast and find a quiet stretch of beach and take in the vastness, beauty and roughness. It humbles and reminds us that we are so small and so connected.

  35. Melissa says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. Please take time to grieve, I remember the pain…I am just so sorry.

  36. Melissa says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. Please take time to grieve, I remember the pain…I am just so sorry.

  37. Amy in StL says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself, hear?

  38. Amy in StL says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself, hear?

  39. Katherine says:

    So sorry. 🙁 We love you and are thinking of you and your family.

  40. Katherine says:

    So sorry. 🙁 We love you and are thinking of you and your family.

  41. Abbey says:

    Wishing you peace and love in your heart and head.

  42. Abbey says:

    Wishing you peace and love in your heart and head.

  43. Megan says:

    please accept my condolences….

  44. Megan says:

    please accept my condolences….

  45. Jessica says:

    I’m so sorry to hear that. Take care. We’ll be here when you’re ready.

  46. Jessica says:

    I’m so sorry to hear that. Take care. We’ll be here when you’re ready.

  47. Josie says:

    I’m so sorry. I hope you find some peace and healing.

  48. Josie says:

    I’m so sorry. I hope you find some peace and healing.

  49. Otter says:

    (((((((hugs)))))))

  50. Otter says:

    (((((((hugs)))))))

  51. Stephanie says:

    Cari, I am so very sorry for you, Billy and Thumper

  52. Stephanie says:

    Cari, I am so very sorry for you, Billy and Thumper

  53. Riin says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry. Do whatever you need to do. Hugs.

  54. Riin says:

    Oh, I’m so sorry. Do whatever you need to do. Hugs.

  55. gleek says:

    🙁 my thoughts are with you! hugs.

  56. gleek says:

    🙁 my thoughts are with you! hugs.

  57. Mish says:

    I am so sorry. *hugs*

  58. Mish says:

    I am so sorry. *hugs*

  59. Oh Cari, I’m so sorry. Much love and hugs to you.

  60. Oh Cari, I’m so sorry. Much love and hugs to you.

  61. catherine says:

    I am very sorry for your loss. I had my first miscarriage this winter and I know how hard it is. Rest and take time to heal both physically and spiritually. (hug)

  62. catherine says:

    I am very sorry for your loss. I had my first miscarriage this winter and I know how hard it is. Rest and take time to heal both physically and spiritually. (hug)

  63. Ruth says:

    Sending hugs and comfort….

  64. Ruth says:

    Sending hugs and comfort….

  65. Faith says:

    I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself.

  66. Faith says:

    I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself.

  67. jodi says:

    Oh, honey. Hugs, to you and your boys.

  68. jodi says:

    Oh, honey. Hugs, to you and your boys.

  69. Heather says:

    …sitting quietly with you in spirit.

  70. Heather says:

    …sitting quietly with you in spirit.

  71. Celine French says:

    I am so sorry and sad about your loss. All my love to you and your family.

  72. Celine French says:

    I am so sorry and sad about your loss. All my love to you and your family.

  73. Anna says:

    I’m terribly sorry for your loss.

    Hugs and peace to you and yours.

  74. Anna says:

    I’m terribly sorry for your loss.

    Hugs and peace to you and yours.

  75. Anna says:

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  76. Anna says:

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  77. Lee Ann says:

    All the love in the world, dude. All of it, in your direction. I’m very sorry you’re going through this.

  78. Lee Ann says:

    All the love in the world, dude. All of it, in your direction. I’m very sorry you’re going through this.

  79. Patti says:

    I’m so sorry. Awww . . .

  80. Patti says:

    I’m so sorry. Awww . . .

  81. Sandra says:

    Cari, I’m so sorry for your family. Do what’s best for you…

  82. Sandra says:

    Cari, I’m so sorry for your family. Do what’s best for you…

  83. Johanna says:

    Oh Cari,

    I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s not something that I’ve experienced, and I can’t even imagine the feeling of loss. Be sure to get extra hugs from Billy and Thumper. Hugs to them also, it’s everyone’s loss.

  84. Johanna says:

    Oh Cari,

    I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s not something that I’ve experienced, and I can’t even imagine the feeling of loss. Be sure to get extra hugs from Billy and Thumper. Hugs to them also, it’s everyone’s loss.

  85. claudia says:

    Thinking about you.

  86. claudia says:

    Thinking about you.

  87. amy says:

    One unconditional hug from a lurker (((YOU)))

  88. amy says:

    One unconditional hug from a lurker (((YOU)))

  89. dawn says:

    so sorry for your loss. i wish you peace. my thoughts will be with your family.

  90. dawn says:

    so sorry for your loss. i wish you peace. my thoughts will be with your family.

  91. janna says:

    I’m so sorry, Cari.

  92. janna says:

    I’m so sorry, Cari.

  93. Kent Dahlgren says:

    Holy fucking shit. I’m close but all of a sudden feel really far. Let me know what I can do. Anything? The boys are out of town for the week, so we’re avail.

  94. Kent Dahlgren says:

    Holy fucking shit. I’m close but all of a sudden feel really far. Let me know what I can do. Anything? The boys are out of town for the week, so we’re avail.

  95. Emma says:

    Cari, I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself, you and your family are in my thoughts.

  96. Emma says:

    Cari, I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself, you and your family are in my thoughts.

  97. rubyredruca says:

    *hugs* So sorry to hear it.

  98. rubyredruca says:

    *hugs* So sorry to hear it.

  99. jaci says:

    Been there, twice. I am so sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve. Peace.

  100. jaci says:

    Been there, twice. I am so sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve. Peace.

  101. Lizbon says:

    Oh I’m so sorry. Take care, and take all the time you need.

  102. Lizbon says:

    Oh I’m so sorry. Take care, and take all the time you need.

  103. Laurie says:

    I’m sorry honey.

  104. Laurie says:

    I’m sorry honey.

  105. Karma says:

    I’m so sorry, and I want to hug you. **Love**

  106. Karma says:

    I’m so sorry, and I want to hug you. **Love**

  107. Anna says:

    I’m so sorry. ((HUGS))

  108. Anna says:

    I’m so sorry. ((HUGS))

  109. AmyDe says:

    I’m so sorry.

  110. AmyDe says:

    I’m so sorry.

  111. Carole says:

    I’m sorry, Cari.

  112. Carole says:

    I’m sorry, Cari.

  113. Victoria says:

    I am so sorry to read this. Much love to you and your family x

  114. Victoria says:

    I am so sorry to read this. Much love to you and your family x

  115. Mary K. in Rockport says:

    So sorry.

  116. Mary K. in Rockport says:

    So sorry.

  117. Rita says:

    I’m so sorry. I’ve been there. It hurts like stink.

  118. Rita says:

    I’m so sorry. I’ve been there. It hurts like stink.

  119. Rebecca says:

    I’m sending you hugs and healing thoughts.

    I’m so sorry.

  120. Rebecca says:

    I’m sending you hugs and healing thoughts.

    I’m so sorry.

  121. I am so sorry, Cari.
    I wish you peace and healing.

  122. I am so sorry, Cari.
    I wish you peace and healing.

  123. joan says:

    Thinking of you.

  124. joan says:

    Thinking of you.

  125. Steph says:

    May a perfect peace find you during this time.

  126. Steph says:

    May a perfect peace find you during this time.

  127. christine says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Cling to the love of those around you.

  128. christine says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Cling to the love of those around you.

  129. giant hugs, my friend. i will give you one in person next time we see each other…

    xoxo

  130. giant hugs, my friend. i will give you one in person next time we see each other…

    xoxo

  131. Shana says:

    Take care…

  132. Shana says:

    Take care…

  133. Lía says:

    So sorry….best wishes for you.

  134. Lía says:

    So sorry….best wishes for you.

  135. Tina says:

    I’m so sorry. Rest and take care of yourself and fam, and let them take care of you too. Love and hugs.

  136. Tina says:

    I’m so sorry. Rest and take care of yourself and fam, and let them take care of you too. Love and hugs.

  137. Knittripps says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your family the best. Take care and take all the time you need. Hugs…

  138. Knittripps says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your family the best. Take care and take all the time you need. Hugs…

  139. Reyna says:

    Oh, Cari, dear. I’m so sorry.

  140. Reyna says:

    Oh, Cari, dear. I’m so sorry.

  141. Cindy says:

    So sorry for your loss… My thoughts are with you and the family.

  142. Cindy says:

    So sorry for your loss… My thoughts are with you and the family.

  143. Brandi says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family find peace and comfort soon.

  144. Brandi says:

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family find peace and comfort soon.

  145. Renee says:

    Cari, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I’ve been there too. You and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you peace and share your grief.

  146. Renee says:

    Cari, I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I’ve been there too. You and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you peace and share your grief.

  147. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourself.

  148. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourself.

  149. Josee says:

    I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

  150. Josee says:

    I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

  151. Jennifer says:

    My heart goes out to you and your family for your loss.

  152. Jennifer says:

    My heart goes out to you and your family for your loss.

  153. Ginny says:

    I am so so sorry Cari. I’ve been there and it is just devastating. Sending you and your family love and healing.

  154. Ginny says:

    I am so so sorry Cari. I’ve been there and it is just devastating. Sending you and your family love and healing.

  155. Jaime says:

    I’m so sorry Cari.

  156. Jaime says:

    I’m so sorry Cari.

  157. Isobel says:

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself.

  158. Isobel says:

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself.

  159. Lisa says:

    I’m so sorry. Hugs to you.

  160. Lisa says:

    I’m so sorry. Hugs to you.

  161. Sara says:

    So sorry to hear your loss.

  162. Sara says:

    So sorry to hear your loss.

  163. I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family find your way through this difficult time.

  164. I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family find your way through this difficult time.

  165. Mother Chaos says:

    I am so very sorry. I’ll be holding you in my thoughts.

  166. Mother Chaos says:

    I am so very sorry. I’ll be holding you in my thoughts.

  167. Lissa says:

    I’m sorry. Sending soothing thoughts your way.

  168. Lissa says:

    I’m sorry. Sending soothing thoughts your way.

  169. I’m so sorry. I’ve been there myself recently, and it totally sucks. Try to do something nice for yourself.

  170. I’m so sorry. I’ve been there myself recently, and it totally sucks. Try to do something nice for yourself.

  171. pattie says:

    so sorry. i wish you comfort. hug thumper and his dad, and let them hug you.

  172. pattie says:

    so sorry. i wish you comfort. hug thumper and his dad, and let them hug you.

  173. michele says:

    i am sorry to hear about this. thinking of you.

  174. michele says:

    i am sorry to hear about this. thinking of you.

  175. Kathy says:

    I’m so sorry.

  176. Kathy says:

    I’m so sorry.

  177. Bullwinkle says:

    I’m so sorry to hear this. May you know peace. Hugs. I’ll keep you in my thoughts.

  178. Bullwinkle says:

    I’m so sorry to hear this. May you know peace. Hugs. I’ll keep you in my thoughts.

  179. Dani B says:

    Healing and peace to you and your family, Cari.

  180. Dani B says:

    Healing and peace to you and your family, Cari.

  181. Keatyn says:

    So sorry for your loss! It looks like I got back to reading my blogs at a sad point! My prayers will be with you.

  182. Keatyn says:

    So sorry for your loss! It looks like I got back to reading my blogs at a sad point! My prayers will be with you.

  183. Amy M. says:

    I’m so sorry, Cari. You are all in my thoughts!

  184. Amy M. says:

    I’m so sorry, Cari. You are all in my thoughts!

  185. Pippy says:

    Oh gosh, Cari. I’m so sorry.

  186. Pippy says:

    Oh gosh, Cari. I’m so sorry.

  187. Leslie says:

    My thoughts are with you and the family. Peace to you all.

  188. Leslie says:

    My thoughts are with you and the family. Peace to you all.

  189. {hugs} I’m sorry. ~x~

  190. {hugs} I’m sorry. ~x~

  191. Samira says:

    So sorry. Sending lots of love to you and your family. xoxo

  192. Samira says:

    So sorry. Sending lots of love to you and your family. xoxo

  193. Wendy says:

    I’m so sorry — I was inexplicably thinking about you all weekend and I guess I now know why. Take care of yourself. xoxo

  194. Wendy says:

    I’m so sorry — I was inexplicably thinking about you all weekend and I guess I now know why. Take care of yourself. xoxo

  195. anina says:

    Oh, sweetie, I’m so sorry. Big love to you and the boys.

  196. anina says:

    Oh, sweetie, I’m so sorry. Big love to you and the boys.

  197. Kim says:

    I am so sorry. Sending good & comforting thoughts.

  198. Kim says:

    I am so sorry. Sending good & comforting thoughts.

  199. Natalie says:

    Hugs and prayers from someone who’s been there. Deal with your loss however you need to, and take care of yourself.

  200. Natalie says:

    Hugs and prayers from someone who’s been there. Deal with your loss however you need to, and take care of yourself.

  201. Marie says:

    So sorry for your loss. Good thoughts to you and Billy and Thumper during this difficult time.

  202. Marie says:

    So sorry for your loss. Good thoughts to you and Billy and Thumper during this difficult time.

  203. angela says:

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you all.

  204. angela says:

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you all.

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