Happy birthday to me

I’m 35 years old today.
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This is the first birthday that’s had a sting to it for me. It’s not old, but it’s certainly not young. Thirty-five sounds terribly grown-up, doesn’t it? Cue midlife crisis.


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158 Comments on “Happy birthday to me

  1. happy birthday! my husband turns 35 next week. i have another 13 months’ respite. yes, it does sound grown up. 40 isn’t far (sorry) – it’s too soon!

  2. happy birthday! my husband turns 35 next week. i have another 13 months’ respite. yes, it does sound grown up. 40 isn’t far (sorry) – it’s too soon!

  3. Happy Birthday! Your first one in Utopia, right? Wonderful! I had mine Friday, but won’t be in pdx until labor day weekend. I am sure someone as talented as you can channel any midlife crisis into a midlife chrysalis and emerge even more alive by your next birthday!

  4. Happy Birthday! Your first one in Utopia, right? Wonderful! I had mine Friday, but won’t be in pdx until labor day weekend. I am sure someone as talented as you can channel any midlife crisis into a midlife chrysalis and emerge even more alive by your next birthday!

  5. Happy birthday, doll! We are just going to leave the age thing on the table. It doesn’t exist. Have some more cake. And the champagne. The champagne is dee-licious.

  6. Happy birthday, doll! We are just going to leave the age thing on the table. It doesn’t exist. Have some more cake. And the champagne. The champagne is dee-licious.

  7. hay, happy birthday! age is just a number (blah blah blah, i know – hearing it doesn’t take the sting out, if you’re going to feel a sting then you’re going to feel a sting). have a great day!

  8. hay, happy birthday! age is just a number (blah blah blah, i know – hearing it doesn’t take the sting out, if you’re going to feel a sting then you’re going to feel a sting). have a great day!

  9. Happy birthday Cari!
    Hope you have a great day! And remember: you are only as old as you feel! I think a midlife crisis can wait, can´t it?

  10. Happy birthday Cari!
    Hope you have a great day! And remember: you are only as old as you feel! I think a midlife crisis can wait, can´t it?

  11. Happy birthday, Cari. Now you are middle-aged just like my 35-yr-old twins! (Just kidding, there’s no way I could have middle-aged children.)

    Today is my mother’s 83rd birthday.

  12. Happy birthday, Cari. Now you are middle-aged just like my 35-yr-old twins! (Just kidding, there’s no way I could have middle-aged children.)

    Today is my mother’s 83rd birthday.

  13. Happy Birthday, 35 stings but you can still consider it your mid 30’s…now 37 that is late 30’s OUCH.

    I hope you have a fantastic day.

  14. Happy Birthday, 35 stings but you can still consider it your mid 30’s…now 37 that is late 30’s OUCH.

    I hope you have a fantastic day.

  15. Happy Birthday!! I read not too long ago that 40 is the new 30, so 35 is the new 25 (yes, I have the mad math skilz). You’re still a youngster!!!

  16. Happy Birthday!! I read not too long ago that 40 is the new 30, so 35 is the new 25 (yes, I have the mad math skilz). You’re still a youngster!!!

  17. Happy birthday!! I know what you mean about 35… boy, do I! It made me get more focused on what I want out of life, which I’m thinking is a *benefit* of turning 35. Hence Madagascar.
    XOXOX to you.

  18. Happy birthday!! I know what you mean about 35… boy, do I! It made me get more focused on what I want out of life, which I’m thinking is a *benefit* of turning 35. Hence Madagascar.
    XOXOX to you.

  19. 35 was a tough one, but that was almost 11 years ago. Take heart in knowing that you don’t look it, and I bet you don’t act it either…

  20. 35 was a tough one, but that was almost 11 years ago. Take heart in knowing that you don’t look it, and I bet you don’t act it either…

  21. Happy birthday, sweetiepie!

    Husband says, “At least she gets to keep her hair…”

    (Oh, the angst…the sadness…the massive campaign against comb-overs launched by the spouse…)

  22. Happy birthday, sweetiepie!

    Husband says, “At least she gets to keep her hair…”

    (Oh, the angst…the sadness…the massive campaign against comb-overs launched by the spouse…)

  23. Cari, I hope you have a great day and a wonderful 35th year!

    Which, honestly, sounds really young to me. Its amazing how my perception/perspective on age-numbers has changed over time. Maybe yours is just in the process of adjusting.

  24. Cari, I hope you have a great day and a wonderful 35th year!

    Which, honestly, sounds really young to me. Its amazing how my perception/perspective on age-numbers has changed over time. Maybe yours is just in the process of adjusting.

  25. Happiest Birthday Little Girl 🙂
    From one 35 year old to a 35 newbie…yes, 35 SOUNDS grown-up, but it’s just a 3 and a 5, that makes 8…8 cookies!!! MWAHHAHAHAHA!!!! See? No midlife crisis – just midlife childhood.

  26. Happiest Birthday Little Girl 🙂
    From one 35 year old to a 35 newbie…yes, 35 SOUNDS grown-up, but it’s just a 3 and a 5, that makes 8…8 cookies!!! MWAHHAHAHAHA!!!! See? No midlife crisis – just midlife childhood.

  27. happy birthday, darlin’!

    it keeps getting better…just don’t think about the number attached to you. the job of just living life to its fullest is enough for you to think about.

  28. happy birthday, darlin’!

    it keeps getting better…just don’t think about the number attached to you. the job of just living life to its fullest is enough for you to think about.

  29. Happy birthday! Don’t worry about 35, 36 is when you have spent half of your life a an adult. It is all down hill from there!

  30. Happy birthday! Don’t worry about 35, 36 is when you have spent half of your life a an adult. It is all down hill from there!

  31. Happy Birthday!! Your birthday and my wedding anniversary are the same. 😀 Also it is Wooster cat’s birthday today (but I just made it the same day as our anniversary because I’m egocentric like that.)

    For your birthday I sent you fiction with teenagers doing bodyshots… Er, except I didn’t know it was your birthday. Yeah.

    Hope there will be cake.

  32. Happy Birthday!! Your birthday and my wedding anniversary are the same. 😀 Also it is Wooster cat’s birthday today (but I just made it the same day as our anniversary because I’m egocentric like that.)

    For your birthday I sent you fiction with teenagers doing bodyshots… Er, except I didn’t know it was your birthday. Yeah.

    Hope there will be cake.

  33. Oh, P.S. Happy Birthday!!!!

    Let the kid have bacon. If you don’t, it will be the first of many things (like drugs) that will be forbidden fruits to be sneaked.

    From the Department of You Get What You Pay For.

  34. Oh, P.S. Happy Birthday!!!!

    Let the kid have bacon. If you don’t, it will be the first of many things (like drugs) that will be forbidden fruits to be sneaked.

    From the Department of You Get What You Pay For.

  35. Happy birthday! I will be 37 next week and it seems impossible to be that age. My parents quit aging (in my mind) in their mid-30’s! Worse- I’m slowly turning into my mother…

  36. Happy birthday! I will be 37 next week and it seems impossible to be that age. My parents quit aging (in my mind) in their mid-30’s! Worse- I’m slowly turning into my mother…

  37. Happy Birthday!

    You have the auspicious honour of sharing your birthday with my brother, my aunt and a very dear friend. You are in good company 🙂

    Have a wonderful day!

  38. Happy Birthday!

    You have the auspicious honour of sharing your birthday with my brother, my aunt and a very dear friend. You are in good company 🙂

    Have a wonderful day!

  39. Birthday, birthday, oh what fun. Birthday, birthday, have another one. . . (Our family’s Winnie-the-Pooh morning birthday song, typed just for you )

  40. Birthday, birthday, oh what fun. Birthday, birthday, have another one. . . (Our family’s Winnie-the-Pooh morning birthday song, typed just for you )

  41. Happy birthday! I turn 42 next month, and I have to say…I’m totally loving my early 40s! Don’t worry…you’re entering a most excellent stage of life. 😉

  42. Happy birthday! I turn 42 next month, and I have to say…I’m totally loving my early 40s! Don’t worry…you’re entering a most excellent stage of life. 😉

  43. Happy B-day! I hope Thumper gave you a big hug and kiss! I felt like it was all down hill after my last birthday…but it was only 24. Maybe I’m a bit dramatic.

  44. Happy B-day! I hope Thumper gave you a big hug and kiss! I felt like it was all down hill after my last birthday…but it was only 24. Maybe I’m a bit dramatic.

  45. It does sound grown up. But as somebody who is a whole 10 months older than you, I assure you it’s not much different from 34. I hope you had a great day!

  46. It does sound grown up. But as somebody who is a whole 10 months older than you, I assure you it’s not much different from 34. I hope you had a great day!

  47. I’m 52 – 35 isn’t old, sorry! And I’m sure when I’m 70, I won’t think 52 is old. 😛

    Adorable picture of you, too.

  48. I’m 52 – 35 isn’t old, sorry! And I’m sure when I’m 70, I won’t think 52 is old. 😛

    Adorable picture of you, too.

  49. Happy happy birthday Cari!

    I’m just a couple of years behind you but I know what you mean. Though the part that scares me is that we are the ‘grown ups’ now – that seems odd!

  50. Happy happy birthday Cari!

    I’m just a couple of years behind you but I know what you mean. Though the part that scares me is that we are the ‘grown ups’ now – that seems odd!

  51. Happy birthday!

    I had my “midlife” crisis when I turned 25. Now I’m looking forward to the thirties and really happy that I am not 15 anymore.
    I have so many great friends and collegues who are plenty older than me (in number of years, that is, nothing else). It makes me look forward to what is coming.

  52. Happy birthday!

    I had my “midlife” crisis when I turned 25. Now I’m looking forward to the thirties and really happy that I am not 15 anymore.
    I have so many great friends and collegues who are plenty older than me (in number of years, that is, nothing else). It makes me look forward to what is coming.

  53. Sorry to have missed your birthday. Hope it was at least fun-filled. 35 isn’t quite old. Wait till you get to ooops! I really cannot reveal my age. Believe me, I’m really old. It’s at that age when your joints will achingly reveal your true age. haha!
    Just make the most of the 30’s. The 40’s can be wonderful. But it will make you wish for your 30’s. So there!

  54. Sorry to have missed your birthday. Hope it was at least fun-filled. 35 isn’t quite old. Wait till you get to ooops! I really cannot reveal my age. Believe me, I’m really old. It’s at that age when your joints will achingly reveal your true age. haha!
    Just make the most of the 30’s. The 40’s can be wonderful. But it will make you wish for your 30’s. So there!

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